YOU’LL GET THROUGH THIS STORM


YOU’LL GET THROUGH THIS STORM

“When…the storm continued raging, we finally gave up all hope of being saved.” Ac 27:20 NIV

There are times in life when God seems distant. We pray but feel abandoned, at the mercy of our circumstances, afraid and hopeless. Paul was no different. He’d longed for an opportunity to preach in Rome and was on his way there when a hurricane struck his ship, plunging everyone into despair. Paul had not only foreseen the loss of the vessel, its crew and cargo, but his “own [life] also” (See v. 10 NIV). And his warning was disregarded by the captain, the pilot, and the centurion in charge of him. Consequently Paul and 276 fellow passengers were placed in a life-threatening crisis, and there was nothing he could do about it. Terrified, he and his companions declared, “We finally gave up all hope of being saved!” After fourteen days at sea without sun or stars to guide them, and just when the hurricane was fiercest, God sent an angel to Paul. “Do not be afraid, Paul. You must stand trial before Caesar; and God has graciously given you the lives of all who sail with you” (v. 24 NIV). They were cold, soaked, and hungry when their ship finally ran aground on an island south of Italy. Every circumstance pointed to tragedy and the demise of Paul’s dream of preaching in Rome. However, when the sun rose on the island of Malta next morning, it became clear that God had piloted them through the storm to the exact destination He had planned for them. And Paul ended up declaring God’s Word before Caesar in Rome. So take courage—you’ll get through this storm!

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Random thoughts 💭


Think of human development as a long journey. At the beginning, we live at the mercy of nature. Dependent on its bounty, we pray for rains and freedom from natural disasters and plagues. At the end of the journey, nature lives at our mercy. We use science and technology to release new wealth and remake the planet. Today, as humans implant themselves with microchips, install artificial organs and plan Mars colonies, we even aim for a ‘singularity’ that will lift us out of nature once and for all.

Narcissists


I try and maintain that we are all kind of self-absorbed. And we’re hungry to feel validated, and we definitely feel validated by people who are like us, who kind of mirror our values and our ideas—they kind of give us that sort of narcissistic thrill that we are okay, that there are other people like this out in the world. It is what drives people to identify with some narrow group. The narrower the better. It’s a little hard to identify with a group of 500,000—it’s kind of abstract.

So there’s this ugly aspect of human nature that forces us to become more and more tribal. And it’s so insanely irrational. When I was working on the book, this is what I was trying to come to terms with—we are all stemmed from the same small group of homo sapiens from Africa, some hundreds of thousands of years, millions of years ago. We are all essentially the same. We all evolved. There’s no real sense of what it means to be white. The whole notion of white as a race is completely debunked scientifically. We are a mix of so many different races, and there’s no one who’s ever a pure race. We all come from the same roots.

#MensConference19 FINAL REPORT!!!


#MensConference19 FINAL REPORT!!!

1. Cheating its too easy, we need to take up bigger challenges like being faithful.

2. Be a brother’s keeper. We are going for success and we are leaving no man behind.

3. No coveting another man’s wife or girlfriend.

4. Respect and honour one another at all times no matter your position in life.

5. Always be on time, keep your word and promises.

6. Never leave the woman who was part of your struggles for a Slay Queen.

7. Keep off lazy women and manipulative women

8. Men should be led by God before they lead their homes.

9. Before you love someone’s daughter, fall in love with God first.

10. Take your commitments seriously. No man should misappropriate money, funds, or property that belong to another man or his family.

11. Men should have the collective responsibility to take care of widows and orphans.

10. No giving money to a woman other than your lawful wife or engaged or confirmed girlfriend, sister, mother or cousin.

11. No wasting money impressing Slay Queens. Every time you are about to spend on a Slay Queen, even if its a cup of coffee, go and buy a bag of cement or a lorry of sand first.

12 . Lay down your standards and look for a woman who can fit or meet those standards. No wasting time on dates, state your case and be frank. If she can’t meet those standards find the person that will.
Kuna nyingine nimesahau wanaume wenzangu?

🦊Fox and The Goat🐐


Once a fox was roaming around in the dark. Unfortunately, he fell into a well. He tried his level best to come out but all in vain. So, he had no other alternative but to remain there until the next morning. The next day, a goat came that way. She peeped into the well and saw the fox there. The goat asked, “what are you doing there, Mr. Fox?”

The sly fox replied, “I came here to drink water. It is the best I have ever tasted. Come and see for yourself.” Without thinking even for a while, the goat jumped into the well, quenched her thirst and looked for a way to get out. But just like the fox, she also found herself helpless to come out.

Then the fox said, “I have an idea. You stand on your hind legs. I’ll climb on your head and get out. Then I shall help you come out too.” The goat was innocent enough to understand the shrewdness of the fox and did as the fox said and helped him get out of the well.

While walking away, the fox said, “Had you been intelligent enough, you would never have got in without seeing how to get out.”

Moral: Look before you leap. Do not just blindly walk in to anything without thinking.

What are some unwritten social rules everyone should know?


-Danish Manzar, M. Tech from Motilal Nehru National Institute of Technology, Allahabad (2020)

1. No matter what, carry your wallet everytime you go outside with anyone.

2. Take the cab or any other public transport instead of your own vehicle if you’re going to pub.

3. Stop being an asshole if you have got the lower berth in Indian railways.

4. Stop forcing an introverted person to behave like an extrovert in group hangout.

5. If possible, avoid the plan to go outside if you have a runny nose.

6. Something is fishy if you’re paying for the 3rd time on your date unless she’s unemployed.

7. Do not swipe left or right if someone shows you a photo on their phone.

8. If someone says NO for anything, after taking a long pause. There could be a high possibility of acceptance if you ask him once more.

9. You can trust some of your friends but you should be very careful with your colleagues. Colleagues are being made to betray anyone.

10. Wave your hand rather than calling his or her name in a louder pitch if someone is wearing headphones.

11. You’re going to regret the decision of dating a social media freak.

12. Correcting someone’s grammar everytime ain’t getting you anywhere. You better ensure not to make such mistakes on your exam papers.

13. If someone is talking to you while sitting, avoid supporting your face with your hands. It shows the methodological behavior of lack of interest.

14. If someone is taking a bit extra time to take out the money from his wallet along with a minute shake in his hands at the time of payment on the counter, he has definitely got some financial problems.

15. Sharing the motivational quotes again and again makes you a dumber person.

16. Adding emoji at the end of the text sometimes deprive that text of its actual motive.

17. A person winks a lot while talking to a dumbass.

18. Offer a glass of water to the delivery man if your house is above the 1st floor and the building doesn’t contain any elevator.

19. If someone is making an effort to make you feel special, they are most probably anticipating the favor in return too.

20. Leaving the post with the odd number like 19 doesn’t look good enough.

Perfect is You


We treat some words as they are the limit
As like Perfect
Yet your existence makes it different
Because you are a confect
Of a clean soul and a blessed spirit
Of a marvelous mind and a beautiful heart
So I refused to agree there is an edge for you
And I say, Perfect is you

We accept some stories as they are the only script
So we live under our painful past
That has happened to my lonely tripped life
Until you came along through my blurred window
As my Peter Pan, so friendly and slow
With no greed in you to show me the way
To acknowledge my existed reality
So I say no to my story
And started believing your theory
That’s the reason for me to spell Love beside your name
Because through you, I’m living again

Looks are so deceiving I already knew
As I am a type of man that would accrue
I never intended to give credits to the external beauty
But still you made me to always wonder about you, it totally complies
You don’t put up makeups
I thought you were natural
I was wrong
Natural, in a sense its more like an edge
Because natural isn’t natural as you are

Feminism (And Male Bashing)🇰🇪 Interesting Read


A lot of stupidity and totalitarian thinking has arisen with a #Metoo movement. Everyone around the world heard about Harry Weinstein story and I will not defend this man, he got what he deserved for being a pig. But I cannot take the fact that some mentally ill women are collecting signitures to ban Matt Damon from movies just because he says that people judge every case ” you know, there’s a difference between, you know, patting someone on the butt and rape or child molestation, right? “. So called feminists are publicly slaughtering a man with alsmost ideal reputation just because he doesn’t blindly support their agenda. Isn’t it ironic that today they want to put up boundaries in a free speech, the one that actually led to the liberation of women’s rights.
After some time I stumbled apone a TED talk by some unknown actor(i’m not gonna advertise him) who was talking about that “guys, we are the problem” and suggesting that men should be more like women. This was last tiping point for me personally. Really, being masculine is a problem now?!
My personal answer to these omega populists, who’re trying to ride the wave of this new hype- if you don’t like being a man, go cut your balls and put on a dress. I am fine being a man, I do not see any issues being one and if someone tells me that something is wrong with it I will defend it the way man should defend his manhood.
As for the general ideas of feminism I totally support the rights of the women, but not the rights to oppress men.

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How do people unknowingly sabotage their own happiness?


Sean Kernan, Son of Quora

Answered Dec 24

Deep down, I knew I didn’t want to be with her anymore.

We were headed in two different directions. And I knew she wasn’t the one.

I should have just done it, ended it. But I delayed.

I began to pull away. I became less engaged, more difficult to be with.

Subconsciously, I’d decided to try to get her to break up with me instead.

I was young, inexperienced and afraid. Afraid of breaking up with a girl. Afraid of hurting her feelings. Afraid of doing the right thing.

It didn’t end well.

She got her feelings hurt far worse. Rather than rip the band-aid off. I unknowingly added more band-aids to pull off.

It made us both miserable. It wasn’t fair to her. It wasn’t fair to me. And it delayed the inevitable.

Now don’t feel bad.

I’m not sitting here writing this hating myself or feeling sad.

This was years ago. I’ve made my peace with this experience. I learned a lot.

And – I’ve spoken with her in the years since. Talked it out. Explained my conduct to her. Apologized wholeheartedly.

Which she thankfully accepted. We are good now.

What happened in that relationship is what happens to so, so, so many people.

They aren’t happy on a deeper level. So rather than confront the problem head-on and work to resolve it, they begin to self-sabotage.

Rather than look for a new job they begin to underperform.

Rather than exercise, they eat more and nap away their sadness.

Rather than study, they wander in their distractions.

Or in my case, rather than end a relationship, I let it drag out to the bitter end.

Self-sabotage is like an internal eject button. If we don’t take action to fix something, to stare down our problem, our inner self will take over.

Rather than solve the problem, it will make it worse, it will turn one bandaid into many.

Don’t let your internal self take over. When it pushes eject, it doesn’t check for a parachute.

How to escape conformism.


⬛️ Folks, I’d also like to learn how to escape conformism. Do I know all of the answers ? No.
However we all must intuitevly realize that answers lie in our brains.
That means we should look deeper into ourselfs, but how do you do it? Well it’s very problematic, because we are conscious, but consciousness is the product of our brain. It’s like milk trying to study a cow, majority of work being done by our brain is invisiable to our conscience.
Therefore I believe that first step in recognising our limitations.
Second step is building mental “tools” in our brains for more critical thinking, I do not understan our brain better and to think more critically about the world.

Recognising limitations is not a building block – it’s a breaking block. No matter how smart you think you are, no matter how sophisticated are your mental “tools”, you can still be wrong about the reality. Recongnition of limitation can give you flexibility to change/adabt your tools whenever needed.

Milgram Experiment

What did you learn from previous relationships?


Carmen Lky, lived in Malaysia

Updated Mar 20, 2018

Always trust your instinct and listen to your best friends. Sometimes you can be so blindly in love, you can’t see reality.

Never beg for someone to stay. In the end, the results will be the same. Let it go the first time when they say they no longer want to be with you.

See the red flags in the beginning of the relationship. What you dislike in the beginning will be the cause of the relationship ending.

A person can leave you ANYTIME no matter how much they proclaim they love you. So, love yourself FIRST.

Leave at once when someone starts criticising you and damaging your mental and emotional health. You won’t realise how much it will affect your future relationship with others and yourself.

Love is all about consistency and effort.

You can truly fall in love with anyone, it’s all just about a choice and a decision.

You can be super compatible with a person, share the same hobbies and values but doesn’t mean that they are the one for you.

Communication is really key. We tend to over analyse and come up with our own conclusion but in reality it’s the total opposite.

Anyone that enters your life is an add value to your happiness. They are however not your happiness.

Do not give yourself too much to a person, or be overly nice to them. They will take you for granted.

Love is not enough, never enough.

Always ask yourself : Are you in love or are you in love with the idea of being in love?

There is always a giver and a taker in a relationship. The more you give, the less they will reciprocate

Try to be gentle as possible with your reaction even if it’s breaking your heart. You can’t change what happened but you can choose how to react towards it.

Save your time and set expectations of each other needs in the beginning. Don’t be afraid to speak up on what you want, the right one will listen.

Don’t waste time looking for a closure, look for one within yourself and end it with that. The only closure you need is that they choose not to be with you. The End.

“Not everything is supposed to become something beautiful and long-lasting. Sometimes people come into your life to show you what is right and what is wrong, to show you who you can be, to teach you to love yourself, to make you feel better for a little while, or to just be someone to walk with at night and spill your life to. Not everyone is going to stay forever, and we still have to keep on going and thank them for what they’ve given us.”

― Emery Allen

Does love always hurt?


Does love always hurt?

Adarsh Gupta, A Sensible Writer

Answered 23h ago

You guys fell in love with each other.

You be in a relationship for few years.

Hugs, kisses, sexting and missing texts, everything was spot on in your relationship.

Cute and small fights also exist between you two which further increase your love.

But then things started getting worse. And you two had a breakup due to some reasons.

Like every other couple, you start blaming your partner for the breakup and then keep on exaggerating that “one shouldn’t fall in love” and “one should fall in love to realize why one shouldn’t” and all.

You don’t receive good morning texts anymore. You feel hurt and miss him/her.

You don’t get hugs anymore. You feel hurt and miss him/her more.

You don’t have someone who cutely cares for you(except mom). You feel hurt and miss him/her more.

You don’t have someone whom you can talk dirty with surety. You feel hurt and miss him/her more.

You don’t get to fight with someone for silly issues. You get hurt and miss him/her more.

But slowly your scars get way with time. You’re not hurt anymore.

You don’t miss him/her anymore. Everything is back on track now.

Then one fine day, you met someone, spent few days with him/her, had few dates and lunches, figured out that he/she is the one and then come in a relationship again.

You fell for her inner beauty, she fell for your inner soul and you two start a new journey of life.

You again come in a relationship.

Again hugs, kisses, sexting and missing texts, everything is spot on in your relationship.

Again cute and small fights exist between you two which further increase your love.

So, what hurt you above?

Love? No

Care and certain things which your partner(Ex) used to do for you? Yes

Habits which you gained due to your partner(Ex)? Yes.

Q.) Does Love always hurts?

Ans.) Love Never Hurts! It’s the caring and certain things which, your loved ones used to do for you, hurts you when you don’t get it.

Love can neither be created, nor be destroyed. It can only be transferred from EX to NEXT.

– Adarsh Gupta

A sincere review from you all would encourage me to write even more.

Te Amo ♥

Are you happy being single?YES and NO.


Are you happy being single?

Shovan Chowdhury, Self-regulated, life-long learner in psychology

YES and NO. I am happy being single because

I enjoy the loneliness and can travel to different places in Bangladesh.

I can do whatever I want; I am free to do anything.

I run, meditate, eat, pray, read and help people.

I am not accountable to anyone. I enjoy a carefree life.

I can save enormous amounts of time and declutter all my problems.

I don’t need to share my bed with anyone.

Nobody can give missed calls at midnight. So, I always have sound sleep.

I live my life with my own rules.

I can spend more time to develop myself.

I am emotionally strong and I avoid relationships consciously.

I don’t need to impress someone; the only person I try to impress is myself.

I always stay peace of mind because I lead a very simple and single life.

I don’t need to check facebook messenger or whatsapp continuously to see whether she has sent any messages or not.

I can spend more time on creativity.

I can chase my passion without any problem.

But after running miles after miles and I have not breath left, I start to miss someone. When I am rejected by employers, I feel the need for someone to console me. When I walk among the thousands of people in the busy street, I feel the need to walk with someone. At the end of busy working day I return from office. I am exhausted, tired then make a cup of coffee and sit in the balcony. I feel the need to find someone.

But there’s nobody there but me.

What did you learn too late in life?Sex is a mere act. Its highly overrated and has 0 significance. Its hyped for no reason. Sex has nothing to do with love.


What did you learn too late in life?

Love is a transient feeling. It fades with time and mood.

Your problems are gossip and “timepass” for EVERYONE even your bestfriend. The only people who actually care are your parents. No one else. Not even your siblings. Eg. If you fail an exam, your relatives may only sympathize with you, your parents are the ones who will actually face headache and look for solutions.

The key to happiness is acceptance. If your girlfriend or boyfriend dumped you or cheated on you, accept it wasn’t meant to be. Accept that someone more worthy is meant to be in your life. Pity them and move on.

Bad terrifying breakups are a blessing. You will ONLY realise it after couple of years of having broken up with someone you really loved. Breakups change your whole perspective and make you mature.

Sex is a mere act. Its highly overrated and has 0 significance. Its hyped for no reason. Sex has nothing to do with love. Having sex doesn’t guarantee a long lasting relationship. Its just an act.

There is nothing wrong. There is nothing right. There are only consequences.

Life is about perspective. As i said theres nothing wrong and theres nothing right. Eg. You tell a pornstar having sex is wrong, he or she will laugh at you. You tell a soldier killing people is wrong, he won’t give a s*** about your opinion. Everyone functions as per their own perspective.

The main cause of misery in life is having association with negative people.if you are surrounded with positive and like minded people the chances of you being depressed reduces exponentially.

Life begins after no contact. If you are dealing with someone toxic(eg. Ex gf/bf)

Being friends with an ex who dumped you will only cause more pain. Cause the day they get a new partner,guess what,they will dump you again. That will hurt more.

As Conor McGregor says – “theres no talent here. Iam obsessed”. ~~~~~ if you think of it,work for it,dream about it,talk about it, do everything based on that 1 thing you want – the universe will make sure you get it. Feel it in your blood. Without saying , work your ass off towards it.

Donot COMMITT to any guy or girl till the age of 24 minimum. Be loyal ofcourse but dont committ. Choices change as you mature.

If you are going through a rough patch, keep reiterrating to yourself that everything happens for the best and you will grow stronger due to this experience.

Time heals EVERYTHING, but only if you let it. So when something bad happens, be optimistic about the future.

With most emotional bonds which dont work out. Strange fact: you start off as strangers and you end up being strangers.

Arenal is an active andesitic stratovolcano. Costa Rica🇨🇷


Arenal is an active andesitic stratovolcano. Costa Rica🇨🇷
Ареналь – действующий андезитовый стратовулкан. Коста Рика🇨🇷

◾Profile Of A Modern Learner In 2018


◾Profile Of A Modern Learner In 2018 #Infographic

▪️Modern learners seek timely, relevant content as they need it. They are keen to develop skills and want to be empowered to take learning into their own hands.

▪️Yet only 1% of employees are involved in the design of their learning. And less than 20% of workplace learning is mobile-enabled.

▪️Find out about why we believe in people-centered eLearning and how it can help you meet the needs of modern learners.

Soda becomes vodka. Bikes become cars. Kisses turn into sex. remember when getting high meant swinging on the playground? when protection meant wearing a helmet? when the worst things you could get from boys were cooties? Dad’s shoulder were the highest place on earth and mum was your hero? your worst enemies were your siblings. race issues were about who ran the fastest. war was only a card game. and the only drug you know was cough medicine. when wearing a skirt didn’t make you a slut. the most pain you felt was when you skinned your knees, and goodbyes only meant until tomorrow? And we couldn’t wait to grow up 😏😏 #DontGrowUp


“Life changes every minute of every day. You lose friends. You gain friends. You realize your friend wasn’t ever really your friend, and that person you used to hate can make a really good friend. You look for love. You find love. You lose love. You realize all long that you’ve been loved. You laugh. You cry. You laugh so hard that you cry. You do this, you do that. You then learn from that and are glad that you did. You have your ups. You have your downs. You see good movies. You see bad movies. You wonder if your life is just one big movie. You look at others and wish you were them. You then realize who they are and are glad that you’re you. You love life. You hate life. In the end you just find yourself happy to be living life, no matter whats thrown at you.” #LifeChanges 😊😔😏


There are a lot of people out there who have great ideas but nothing in this world is cheaper than a good idea without any action behind it. It’s great you have an idea. Now do it. Try it. Fix it. Nothing can stop you when you are an action oriented doer. Small steps. Start now.


What If


What if you find a key that opens all locks,
What if you find the key to your mind
And what if all the answers you were looking for are there,
What if the inner eye opens up
To fill the blinding gap,
What if you seem crazy for others
But you are not ,
What if the key that opens
Is the door that traps ,
What if you see something you weren’t suppose to see
What if you reveal a secret hidden for eternity
What if you drown alone in mysterious &
What if you travel down in histories,
What is the key and where is it ?
The key that locks all the unlocks
The key that unlocks all the locks
Is the key we humans lack
The key of death and luck.

Trapped in the walls of Loneliness


The door is locked
How do I get inside ?
The widow is closed
How do I get in sight ?
The wall is cracked
But I don’t see a passing light
What is this place
Is it life of death ?
Shuttered in the doors of darkness
Trapped in the walls of loneliness
to become void and senseless
To Live with a fading conscious
What is this place
Is it life or death ?

Forsaken


Standing on gallows ground
There is a rope around your neck
A raven bird on your shoulder
Whispering “you are soon to be dead”
The gallows tree has deeper roots
For it stretches from heaven to hell
Your world is the only branch
From which the rope is set
The wolves are howling
The day is long from downing
Your feet are hurting
By the heavy thought of dying
You look up in the sky
The moon is bleeding
You look down below
Your ground is shaking
To remind you that
you are praying to gods
Who seem to be not listening
Now fate has spoken
You will be casted away
As the ripper creeps in
To swing his final sway

😊Little Boy’s Meeting with God


There once was a little boy who wanted to meet God. He knew it was a long trip to where God lived, so he packed his suitcase with Twinkies and a six-pack of root beer and started his journey. When he had gone about three blocks, he met an old woman. She was sitting in the park just staring at some pigeons.

The boy sat down next to her and opened his suitcase. He was about to take a drink from his root beer when he noticed that the old lady looked hungry, so he offered her a Twinkie. She gratefully accepted it and smiled at him. Her smile was so pretty that the boy wanted to see it again, so he offered her a root beer. Once again she smiled at him. The boy was delighted! They sat there all afternoon eating and smiling, but they never said a word.

As it grew dark, the boy realized how tired he was, and he got up to leave but before he had gone more than a few steps, he turned around, ran back to the old woman and gave her a hug. She gave him her biggest smile ever. When the boy opened the door to his own house a short time later, his mother was surprised by the look of joy on his face. She asked him, “What did you do today that made you so happy?” He replied, “I had lunch with God.” But, before his mother could respond, he added, “You know what? She’s got the most beautiful smile I’ve ever seen!”

Meanwhile, the old woman, also radiant with joy, returned to her home. Her son was stunned by the look of peace on her face and he asked, “Mother, what did you do today that made you so happy?” She replied, “I ate Twinkies in the park with God.” But, before her son responded, she added, “You know, he’s much younger than I expected.”

Moral: God is everywhere. We just need to share our happiness and make others smile to feel him.

Does porn up men’s game?


Internet influence is an act that both males and females undergoes through. A few weeks ago, a classmate of mine came to me asking why guys like watching porn. I didn’t think about it that much at that particular pointing in time until yesterday. I deeply thought about it and how it influences guys perception on females.
I took it upon myself to WhatsApp random guys contact in my contact list and you won’t believe this but it’s true, that most guys watch porn to up their sex game. For a long time I took this as a non issue in our society until last week, when I bumped into a porn clip from one of my classmate’s laptop.
I asked him out just to get his view on this.

You know what Collins, every guy atleast once must watch these clips to learn. It makes you better in bed. Imagine making your girl behave like the pornstar girl-all that moaning, screaming.

“Really? Has it affected how you perceive girls? “I asked.
“Well, I have to confess this, I don’t pretty much give women that much value, I believe in a one night stand thing. Get her super, watch a movie and have your ticket between her legs. And most of the time, all I see is that well rounded ass, and how am longing to grab it. I know it’s a bad thing, but really it’s also fun and entertaining. ” He elaborated.
Then I went to a few girls to get their opinions on this.
“It’s embarrassing really how guys view us in this modern era, we girls also want to be a part of society, we don’t dress as an invitation but to embrace our true identity. And shame on those guys who view us as sexual toys.” Grace, Bcom student.
“Do you girls also watch porn? ” I asked.

Out of curiosity, its a normal thing for every human, but just once or twice for girls unlike guys who get addicted to it.she replied.

“How does porn addiction from guys influence how they view you.. And first have you ever been a victim from them”

“Yes, I have been, I remember one day walking across school and this guy friend of mine slaps(spanks) me from behind. I felt helpless. I didn’t wanna react because of the embarrassment that would cause me and I have so many friends who feel uncomfortable on how guys perceive them. I think porn makes them demean women and the fact that addiction plays so much in their mind, most of time they lose focus of serious activities in their daily lives.”

It’s a proven fact that frequent Exposure to dirty clips ruins your mind on how you view people from the opposite sex. Most of the time sex will be the only thing running In your mind. Have witnessed this first hand, its a path you don’t want to tread on for the sake of yourself, our girls and our entire society. Internet indeed is a good thing, but let’s stop consuming its vices. Let’s make it a tool to develop ourselves for the best. It’s a hard thing to turn our back against, that’s why we are asking for help from our female colleagues, because together we can achieve equity.

Today is a great day.


This is always how my typical morning start.I don’t care how the previous day was.Depending on what you’re going through,you just have to wake up,kneel down and say a short prayer to our father in heaven thanking him for his providence.

Hope this is not making you dizzy.I interact with a lot of friends .one moment they feel special and the other moment they feel like a piece of shit.At least you must have experienced this one way or another in your life. One thing that many people don’t get in life is that nature has a very funny way of getting things done.Take an instance of those you consider successful; what do you mirror of their campus or childhood life?They looked hopeless and trust me some of the people they grew up with never expected such a tremendous success from them.

Take a stock of your classmates back in class one. Try to trace how many are with you,better or worse than you and how many are dead.You’ll be surprised but that doesn’t mean you were better than them. What it means is that there were great plans ahead that you never saw by then. When you start to understand some of these simple things that keep happening in our lives,then you’ll have a clear understanding of the merits of waking up each morning.

Everyday is a great day for me.Right from my first beautiful good morning messages/texts to my parents and a few of my trusted friends to the last goodnight texts. I stopped having a role model because the last one I had never went as per my fancy. I call that my weakness because once I single you out as my role model,I run a background check on you and believe me some of the rumours I get leaves only one single man,Jesus Christ. He’s the kind of man I’m looking forward to,the kind of man I’ve always wanted to be and I’m still striving to be. Don’t just dismiss or underrate me because you never know just the way you were not certain of reading this post today.

Take each day easy. Be optimistic. Know your character. Don’t fool people with your reputation. And have cool friends that gives you a reason to live that extra day. It takes a huge amount of sacrife because there are those who wake up with only one mission;to lower your dignity.Be careful.Don’t give up and spend every moment fully. Tell that person that you love her and do that thing today.

Feels good watching the sunrise