Be that lady


Being a lady is something like a favour. Because you won’t be required to provide, protect or work hard. The only thing maybe is love. I’m not a lady but I have sisters and interacts with lots of ladies.
  The world tend to give a lady a lot of definitions. From curved hips to rounded Buts. I don’t have a specific defination that covers all women. All I know is that the way you’re that’s the true lady. Embracing the positive self is all that matters.
   Those aside, there are some distinctive traits that separates that lady you see around and THAT LADY.
The lady I’m talking about are a few in this world. If you think you qualify, read keenly the below traits.
  Be that lady that prays. That sounds easy, you do it everyday. What I mean is prayer for enemies, an example is that man that broke your heart or that stalker you don’t want to see in your sight.
  Be that lady that loves mum and dad.
Loving parents is very important to ladies. Rarely do ladies love their parents dearly. I’m not talking about that lady who despises her parents. That lady is she who will cancel a date and get time to hanging around with mum and dad.
   Be that lady that has a purpose. Be the lady that can figure out how to make income. Don’t be just the lady that takes the life as it comes. Be the lady that tries by all means to shape her own destiny. Don’t be that girl that relies on boyfriend or husband for majority of things.
  Be that lady that truly loves. The lady I’m talking of here isn’t one who wants to have every man so that at the end of the day the pocket is full. I don’t know the perfect term to brand them. Be that kind of lady who loves herself. Know that you have a great body that is suppose to be taken care of.
  Be that lady who has a mentor. We’re not robots or machines. There are a times when we get faced with trouble. Having someone close who you can trust is the perfect solution. Have someone 1000 times better than you not your best friend. I insist.
  Be that lady who networks. Being social is perfectly good for a persons well being. The kind of networks you create determine greatly you’re next move in your life and career. Be a lady who don’t waste chances on potential networks.
  Be that lady who don’t waste a minute. Time is of essence. Probably a clichĂŠ, but still some need repetition for the basics to sink. Your time isn’t to be wasted. It can through having talks that should have ended long ago. But this doesn’t mean that fun and social time are wasted time.
Now you know. If you think I never captured some traits that that lady should have be free to leave them at the comment section.


26 thoughts on “Be that lady

  1. eddaz 28 May 2016 / 16:14

    Thanks for motivating the ladies. We need to hear this more often.

    Liked by 1 person

  2. DreamLoveLaughPray 5 Jun 2016 / 14:12

    I only disagree with 1 thing here: we ladies do also have to work hard. But I love and fully agree that “embracing the positive self if all that matters”. Thank you for a great post! Keep it up.

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  3. Joyful2bee 6 Jun 2016 / 07:22

    I agree with DreamLoveLaughPray. I would also add that men should exhibit these traits as well. A woman who comes up to these standards would want a man of like mind.😃

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    • mybloomsite 6 Jun 2016 / 07:41

      Haha… I can’t stop blushing at the comment.. So traits of “be that man and lady” should intertwine

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      • Joyful2bee 6 Jun 2016 / 08:18

        That is my opinion. The Bible does say not to be unequally yoked; oxen need to be of similar strengths to pull together evenly, they need to work well together.


  4. adedejiwritesblog 6 Jun 2016 / 14:47

    This is a great blog filled with great works, edifices of memorial value. Great to know this kind of intelligent writer exists. Great Work Bro. Keep the Flag flying…

    Liked by 2 people

  5. daramemon 9 Jun 2016 / 07:45

    A lady is a mans greatest trophy, to each his own req of a lady yet ur analysis correct

    Liked by 2 people

  6. Judith ~ Praise 13 Jun 2016 / 09:18

    Wow this is great. Really inspiring

    Liked by 2 people

  7. WeW 5 Aug 2016 / 14:06

    Your post will inspire ladies to be all this and more. I will reblog some of your posts, of course with your permission.

    Liked by 2 people

  8. WeW 8 Aug 2016 / 15:56

    Reblogged this on We Extraordinary Women and commented:
    Do you have these traits that a lady should have?

    Be that lady that prays.
    Be that lady that loves mum and dad.
    Be that lady that has a purpose.
    Be the lady that can figure out how to make income.
    Be that lady that truly loves.
    Be that kind of lady who loves herself.
    Be that lady who has a mentor.

    Liked by 1 person

  9. Aishwarya 8 Aug 2016 / 16:03

    I thoroughly enjoyed reading this post! I think most importantly I would ask this:
    Be a lady that Inspires others!
    Looking forward to more posts. Cheers

    Liked by 1 person

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